Is The Market Your Friend Or Foe?
Einstein once said one of the most important questions we can ask ourselves is "Is the universe a friendly place". I think as traders we should ask ourselves, is the market a friendly place? That may seem like a silly question but I think it's a question that most of us need to answer.
I used to know a trader who had great trading ideas, great analysis of the market yet he didn't make any money trading. He would tell his ideas to other traders and they would make money based on his insight yet he would lose money or make very little. I always wondered why he struggled yet others did quite well taking trades based on his recommendations.
I finally realized the reason this trader was losing money was not because of his faulty market analysis but because of his faulty thinking. This trader always assumed his winning positions would turn into losers and that his small losses would turn into larger losses. As a result of this kind of thinking, this trader would exit his winning positions once he had a small profit and would exit his losing positions as soon as they showed a small loss. He never allowed his trades to develop so all he would end up with were many small losses and small wins. His view of the market was that the market will find a way to take his money so he micro managed his positions which caused him to exit his trades too soon. It's almost as if this trader was looking for excuses to exit his postions early.
Once this trader changed his thinking, he began to notice his P/L grow and become profitable. The methods he was using were still the same but it was his new way of thinking that made all the difference. His view about the market changed from thinking the market is out to take his money to thinking the market is there to help him accumulate money if he follows his winning methodology.
Who is this trader I am talking about? That trader was me! Years ago I couldn't figure out why I wasn't making money even though my forecasts were correct a high percentage of the time. I finally realized I viewed the market as a foe and not a friend. Once I changed my thinking about the market, my trading greatly improved.
I'd like to add one other thing. Just because you may view the market as a friend does not mean you will make money. You still need to have a method that provides an edge and has some degree of forecasting ability. On the other hand, if you do have a profitable approach towards trading but deep down inside you view the market as an enemy, you're probably going to be spinning your wheels for quite awhile.
Is the Market your friend or Foe? Silly question? I think not!
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Thanks for the insight Kevin. I've been struggling with this lately. The real enemy was me. A string of poorly disciplined trades that were simply out of the pattern that brought me success. Any ideas on how to expedite the change in thought ?
daveo
If you don't already, try keeping a journal. Record what you were thinking or feeling regarding your trades.
Hi Daveo,
I agree with TRS, keeping a journal about your trading is a great way to find patterns in the way you think and trade.
Another way is through visualization. Visualize yourself trading correctly and reacting to the market in a confident manner by following your trading rules.
There may be a few other ways to change your thinking, but the two I just gave you should help you a great deal.
Great post. For a minute, I thought you were talking about me.
hey kevin
great blog...and fun to read too !
by any chance..would you happen to be canadian?
Hi nonymous,
I'm not canadian, I'm American.
Dear Kevin,
I love your blog. Thank you so much for keeping it. You really nailed my problem with this post. I didn't think of the market as friend or foe, but it is true in many ways. Looking back at when I first started trading, I see that I viewed the market as a friend. That was when I was most successful. Then I got burned badly a few times and began to distrust the market. Ever since then, trading has been infinitely more difficult. Thanks for sharing and for consistently encouraging us all to work harder at becoming better traders.
Hi Miss Havisham,
Thanks for the nice comments..I do appreciate it.
Great post. I've also been struggling with this lately. Keep up the great posts
hello
I appreciate the input trs and kevin, I have rehashed what I did wrong and will not repeat those things. Easy enough. My problem since this string of trades has been allowing the trade to develop. In my last 4 swing trades, I have either talked myself out of the trade, or ended it at break even or up a couple hundered bucks. I easily could have made everything back and then some more. I felt alot better after reading Kevin's post from yesterday. I'll likely reread it again several times. My question about changing my thinking pertained to seeing the market as a friend again. How can I regain my positive outlook ?? My brother has been doing quite well following my entry and exit advice.
Hey Daveo,
As Wayne Dyer says, When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
I really think if you visualize the market has being there to help you make money, your view of the market will change.
There is no doubt the market has risk and we can lose money, but you can't take that personally. The market is not out to get you.
My view is that the market is there to offer its riches to anyone who will work hard, be disciplined and follow rather than argue with price. So as long as I have an opportunity to make money, I view the market has a friend.
I think you've attached a lot of negative emotions to the market which is causing you to trade out of fear. You are not trading to win, you are trading not to lose. I've been there, I know.
Just visualize the makret as a friend and in time your view of the market will change. Going back to what Wayne Dyer said " When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
when you lose money on the trot, you would start fearing it..
strategy works till it stops working
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